Your Guide to Safe Online Dating and Meeting New People.

Dating Safety Guide

Create a secure account

Protect your personal information and start your journey in the right way.

Identify scammers and fakes

Watch out for red flags and unrealistic profiles. Make use of our user verification.
Find a date

Safe communication

Follow our guidelines to protect your privacy and maintain safe messaging practices.

Meeting in person safely

Establish a level of trust until you feel ready to meet someone in person.
Putting Safety First: Tips for Meeting New People on Jaumo.
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Your Guide for a Secure Dating Experience.

In today's digital age, online dating has become a popular way to meet new people and potentially find love. However, it's essential to prioritize your safety and take precautions when interacting with strangers on dating apps and social networks. This comprehensive guide will provide you with valuable tips and advice to ensure your online dating experience is secure and enjoyable.
Secure Dating Experience

Creating a Secure Account

To start your journey towards online dating safety, it's crucial to create a secure account on Jaumo. This is also relevant for any other social app you use. Follow these tips to protect your personal information:

  1. Choose a strong password: Select a password that is unique and difficult to guess. Avoid using common phrases or personal details.
  2. Beware of phishing attempts: Be aware that we will never ask you to provide your username and password via email. If you receive such an email, report it immediately.
  3. Report suspicious behavior: If you come across any profiles or messages that raise concerns about someone's behavior, report them to us. There is a reporting feature in every Jaumo user profile.

Identifying Scammers and Fake Profiles

Unfortunately, scammers and fake profiles exist in the online dating world and in every social network. Stay vigilant and watch out for the following red flags:

  1. Unrealistic profiles: Be wary of profiles that seem too good to be true. If someone appears exceptionally attractive or their life story sounds too perfect, proceed with caution.
  2. Inconsistent information: Pay attention to inconsistencies in a person's profile or messages. Stolen photos or conflicting details could indicate a fake profile.
  3. Requests for financial assistance: Be cautious of individuals who claim to be in desperate situations and ask for financial help. Never send money to someone you've met online, regardless of their sob story.
  4. Avoidance of in-person meetings: If someone consistently avoids meeting in person or refuses to engage in video or phone calls, it may be a sign that they are hiding something.
  5. Evading personal questions: If a person consistently avoids answering your questions or redirects the conversation whenever you probe deeper, it could be a warning sign.
  6. Suspicious language patterns: Scammers often use generic language patterns and phrases. Watch out for phrases like "God fearing" or "sincere man/woman" that are commonly used by scammers.

Safe Messaging and Communication

Maintaining safe messaging and communication practices is crucial when getting to know someone on a dating app. Follow these guidelines to protect your privacy:

  1. Use Jaumo's messaging platform: Keep your conversations within our app's messaging platform until you have established trust with the other person. This ensures that your messages are subject to the platform's safety filters.
  2. Avoid sharing personal information: Refrain from sharing personal information such as your social security number, home or work address, or details about your daily routine. Protect your privacy until you feel comfortable with someone.
  3. Limit information about children: If you are a parent, be cautious about sharing details about your children on your profile and in early communications. Avoid disclosing their names, school information, or any other identifying details.
  4. Be cautious with photos: While sharing photos can help build a connection, be mindful of the images you share. Avoid sharing explicit or compromising photos that could be misused.
  5. Report any suspicious behavior: If you encounter any suspicious behavior or receive inappropriate messages, report it to our support team immediately. Your actions can help protect others from potential harm.

Meeting in Person Safely

Once you've established a level of trust and feel ready to meet someone in person, it's crucial to prioritize your safety during the meeting. Follow these safety tips:

  1. Choose a public place: Select a populated and public location for your first few meetings. Avoid meeting at your home, the other person's home, or any other private location.
  2. Inform a friend or family member: Before meeting someone for the first time, inform a friend or family member about your plans. Share details like the location, time, and the person's profile information. Keep your cell phone charged and with you at all times.
  3. Arrange your own transportation: Take control of your transportation to and from the meeting place. Use a taxi, ride-share app or have a trusted friend pick you up. Avoid relying on the other person for transportation, especially on the first few dates.
  4. Trust your instincts: If you feel uncomfortable at any point during the meeting, it's okay to end the date early. Listen to your intuition and prioritize your safety.
  5. Be cautious with drinks and personal belongings: Keep an eye on your drink at all times and accept beverages only from the bartender or server. Do not leave your personal belongings unattended, as they may contain sensitive information.

LGBTQ+ Travel Safety

For LGBTQ+ individuals, it's essential to be aware of potential risks and legal considerations when traveling to different countries. Some countries may have specific laws that target LGBTQ+ people. Follow these guidelines:

  1. Research local laws: Before traveling to a new destination, research the local laws and regulations regarding LGBTQ+ rights. Understand the legal protections, if any, available to individuals based on sexual orientation.
  2. Toggle off location sharing: If you find yourself in an area where your safety may be at risk, consider adding the city name of your next largest city near your hometown. This helps protect your privacy and reduces the chances of potential entrapment. We never share your exact location.
  3. Support LGBTQ+ organizations: Consider donating to organizations like ILGA World, which provide research and support for LGBTQ+ rights. Stay informed about the latest sexual orientation laws and support initiatives that promote equality.

Additional Tips for Online Dating Safety

Here are a few additional tips to ensure your online dating experience remains safe and enjoyable:

  1. Take your time: Avoid rushing into meeting someone or sharing personal information. Take the time to get to know the person and establish trust before taking the next steps.
  2. Stay in control: Prioritize your own comfort and boundaries. If someone pressures you into doing something you're not comfortable with, assert your boundaries and end the interaction if necessary.
  3. Stay sober: Be mindful of the effects of drugs or alcohol on your judgment and alertness. Avoid excessive drinking or drug use during dates, as it can impair your decision-making abilities.
  4. Keep communication within the app: To maintain safety and privacy, continue using the dating app's messaging platform until you feel comfortable moving the conversation elsewhere.
  5. Stay aware of your surroundings: Whether you're meeting someone in person or chatting online, always stay aware of your surroundings. Trust your instincts and take necessary precautions to protect yourself.

By following these online dating safety guidelines, you can navigate the world of online dating with confidence. Remember to prioritize your safety and trust your instincts throughout the process. Happy dating and meeting new people!


Online dating and meeting new people can be a fun and exciting, but it's crucial to prioritize your safety. By following the tips and guidelines outlined in this comprehensive guide, you can navigate the world of online dating and making new friends with confidence and protect yourself from potential risks. Remember to trust your instincts, report any suspicious behavior, and prioritize your personal well-being. Stay safe and enjoy your online dating journey!

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